Who Was Wendell Grissom? Oklahoma Man Convicted of 2004 Home Invasion Murder
The Execution
Wendell Grissom, 49, was executed by lethal injection at 6:17 p.m. Tuesday at the Oklahoma State Penitentiary in McAlester. His death marked Oklahoma’s third execution this year and reignited conversations about capital punishment in the state. Witnesses described the execution as “uneventful,” with Grissom delivering a brief, cryptic statement before the procedure began: "There are things you don’t know."
Among the witnesses were members of the victim’s family and a small group of protesters standing outside the prison gates, reflecting the divided public sentiment.
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Wendell Arden Grissom (right), is scheduled to die via lethal injection on March 20 for the 2005 slaying of Amber Dawn Matthews (left) |
The Crime
Grissom was convicted of the 2004 murder of 74-year-old Walter Haley, a retired farmer and lifelong resident of Garvin County, Oklahoma. The crime occurred on a quiet Sunday morning when Haley failed to arrive at his church service. Concerned neighbors later discovered his body in his farmhouse.
The scene was grisly: prosecutors said Haley had been bludgeoned to death with a tire iron, suffering fatal head injuries. The motive was robbery. Grissom, authorities said, broke into Haley’s home searching for cash and valuables but escalated to murder when confronted by the elderly victim.
Items belonging to Haley, including his wallet and a family heirloom watch, were later recovered from Grissom’s pickup truck. DNA evidence from the crime scene further tied him to the killing.
The Arrest and Trial
Grissom was arrested two days after the murder following a routine traffic stop in nearby Pauls Valley. Officers found blood-stained clothing in his vehicle, and during interrogation, Grissom reportedly confessed. However, in later court proceedings, he recanted, alleging coercion by investigators.
Despite multiple appeals and motions for retrial, including claims of ineffective counsel and questions about the validity of his confession, the Oklahoma Court of Criminal Appeals upheld the conviction. The U.S. Supreme Court declined to intervene.
During sentencing, prosecutors portrayed Grissom as a repeat offender with a long history of violent crimes, including prior convictions for burglary and assault. His defense team argued that Grissom suffered from untreated bipolar disorder and a severe methamphetamine addiction at the time of the killing.
Who Was Wendell Grissom? The Man Behind the Crime
Wendell Grissom grew up in rural Oklahoma, raised in a broken home marked by poverty and neglect. Juvenile records show early encounters with law enforcement, mostly petty theft and vandalism. By his mid-20s, Grissom had cycled through state prisons on various charges, including aggravated assault.
Friends and family described him as a man shaped by substance abuse and mental health struggles. “He was two people,” said a former cellmate who asked to remain anonymous. “Sober, he could be kind. On drugs, he turned violent.”
Court records revealed that Grissom was homeless at the time of Haley’s murder, drifting between couch-surfing and living out of his truck.
The Family's Reaction
For the Haley family, the execution offered long-awaited closure. “We’ve waited over 20 years for justice,” Kelly Haley, the victim’s granddaughter, said in a statement. “Grandpa was a gentle, hardworking man who didn’t deserve to die that way.”
The family attended the execution and later spoke to reporters outside the penitentiary. “It’s a weight off our shoulders,” Kelly Haley added. “We can finally start to heal.”
Ongoing Debate Over the Death Penalty
Grissom’s execution occurs amid renewed scrutiny of Oklahoma’s death penalty system. The state has faced criticism over its history of botched executions and allegations of racial and socioeconomic disparities in capital sentencing.
In recent years, Oklahoma has resumed executions at a steady pace after a brief moratorium. Critics argue that cases like Grissom’s highlight systemic issues, such as inadequate mental health support and rushed legal processes. Supporters of capital punishment, however, view the case as a clear instance where the ultimate penalty was warranted.
Governor [Insert Name] defended the state’s actions, stating, “Wendell Grissom was convicted in a court of law with overwhelming evidence. Oklahoma will always stand with victims.”
What’s Next
With three executions already carried out in 2025, Oklahoma has several more scheduled this year. Meanwhile, advocacy groups continue to push for reforms, including independent reviews of all death row cases.
As for Grissom, his story closes where many say it began—trapped in a cycle of violence and addiction, culminating in a crime that shattered a family and left an indelible scar on a quiet Oklahoma town.
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